ADHD Hyperfocus is a depth-first search

If a task is not “interesting” (whatever that means) it’s like pulling teeth to start. However, if a task is interesting, it’s like pulling teeth to stop. Waking-up thought today: with ADHD, it’s like I’m stuck stuck in a perpetual depth-first search. (I would’ve called … “ADHD Hyperfocus is a depth-first search”

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On feelings

I’ve come to believe there is no “should” with feelings. They’re irrational by definition. They’re not gonna make sense. You feel them, you hold space for them, no matter how bizarre or fucked up, and…. They change. They move on. And then you can too. … “On feelings”

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